Amuna ambiri, monga akazi, nthawi zonse amayesetsa kukhala odziyimira pawokha, koma nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kudziwa poyambira. Izi nthawi zambiri zimalepheretsa anthu kuchita chilichonse, zomwe sizimawapangitsa kumva bwino.
Pofuna kupewa izi kuti zikuchitikireninso, nayi chiwongolero chachikulu chokuthandizani kuti mupange mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa inu nokha.
Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kusintha
Mutha kupitiriza kunena kuti mukufuna kukhala munthu wabwinoko, koma mukutanthauza chiyani? Kodi mukufuna kumveketsa bwino, kuchepetsa thupi, kapena kukonza masitayelo anu? Kapenanso, kodi ndizovuta kwambiri za momwe mukumvera? Kodi mukufuna kukhala osangalala m'moyo, kukhala opindulitsa kwambiri, kapena pomaliza pake kuthetsa mkwiyo woterowo? Kuganizira zonsezi kudzakuthandizani kuchepetsa ntchito yodzitukumula, kotero kuti sizowopsya.
Kumbukirani kuti simuyenera kusintha chilichonse patsiku. Ndi masitepe ang'onoang'ono omwe angakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna.
Yesani masitayelo atsopano
Ngati simukudziwa zomwe mukufuna kukonza, ndiye kuti malo abwino oyambira akuyang'ana kalembedwe kanu. Zitha kukhala kuti zomwe mwavala sizikuyenereraninso kapena zimagwirizana ndi kukumbukira koyipa komwe sikumakupangitsani kumva bwino mukamavala. Onetsani momveka bwino pazovala zonse zomwe simukuzikonda ndipo yesani masitayelo atsopano, apamwamba. Ndi njira yabwino yodziwonetsera nokha mopukutidwa ndikuchita zochepa kwambiri.
Njira ina yabwino yosinthira kalembedwe kanu ndikupita kukapanga tsitsi latsopano. Inu simumadziwa; kukhoza kukhala kusintha komwe mumafunikira kuti mukhale mtundu wabwino kwambiri wa inu nokha.
Dziwani kuti mankhwala si akazi okha
Azimayi amadziwika kuti amakonda zodzikongoletsera chifukwa cha momwe zimawathandizira kuti asakhale ndi nkhawa komanso kukongola. Kotero, lingaliro la kukhala mu kalozera wa amuna likhoza kudabwitsani inu, koma ndi kopindulitsa kwambiri kudzipangitsa kudzikonda. Kugula zinthu kuchokera ku Compagnie de Provence, mwachitsanzo, monga zometa zabwino kukuthandizani kuti mukhale olimba mtima komanso kuti mumve ngati ndinunso abwino. Mukawoneka bwino ndikumva bwino, mudzakhala osangalala kwambiri m'moyo.
Pezani nthawi yanu
Mukazindikira zomwe mukufuna kusintha kapena kukonza, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti muli ndi nthawi yochulukirapo kuti muganizire izi. Ngati mumathera nthawi yochuluka kuntchito kapena mukuthamangira ana anu m’moyo wabanja wotanganidwa, ndiye kuti mulibe nthawi yochuluka yokhala nokha. Komabe, kupeza nthawi yokhala nokha n'kofunika kwambiri kuti mudzikonzere nokha chifukwa kumakupatsani mwayi womasuka ndikuyang'ana pa inu kuti musinthe. Mupeza kuti, podzipatsa nokha mphindi makumi awiri zokha patsiku kuti mungoyang'ana pa inu, mudzakhala bwino komanso osangalala mtsogolo.
Mutha kusankha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mungafune panthawiyi, kaya ndikuwerenga buku, kutikita minofu, kapena kuyambitsa zina zatsopano.
Mutha kulowa nawo gulu lamasewera lomwe lingaphatikizepo zomwe mukufuna kuti mukhalebe olimba.