Kodi kupita pa intaneti kuti mulumikizane ndi omwe mungakhale okwatirana nawo kudzakhala 'chosasinthika' cha osakwatiwa? Ndi funso lomwe likuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa anthu osakwatiwa omwe akuyamba chibwenzi pa intaneti. (Kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi ziwerengero zomwe zili kumbuyo kwa mawuwa, tsopano pali masauzande ambiri ofananirako kunja uko, omwe ali ndi zokonda zambiri, ndipo tsopano ayambitsa gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a maubale amakono). Inde, chiwerengerochi chingatengedwenso kuti chiwulule kuti magawo awiri mwa atatu a maanja amakumanabe muzochitika zambiri za "chikhalidwe". Koma ndi gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a graph yomwe ikukula kwambiri. Nazi zifukwa zomwe zibwenzi za digito zitha, kapena ayi, zilowe m'malo mwa mitundu yapaintaneti.
Masamba amatengera zokonda zosiyanasiyana
Dera limodzi lomwe kupita pa intaneti ndikudutsa njira 'yakale' yosaka munthu woyenera kukhala pachibwenzi ndi anthu okhwima omwe ali ndi zibwenzi. Anthu amene anakumanapo kale ndi mavuto a pachibwenzi, mwina amene akuvutika chifukwa cha kusudzulana kapena kuferedwa, angakhale atafika polakalaka kuyambanso moyo wawo. Makamaka moyo wawo wachikondi! Anthu osakwatiwa okhwima akhoza kukhala omasuka kufunafuna mizimu yokhudzana ndi achibale mu kalabu yomwe ikusewera zovina zaposachedwa kwambiri (mokweza kwambiri), mozunguliridwa ndi Millennials akugwa pambuyo potengera nthawi yosangalala. Kupita pa intaneti kumayimira changwiro chilengedwe komwe amatha kumasuka ndikukhala omasuka kukopana ndi ena pa kutalika kwawo.
Kuyankhulana Kwabwino
Kumene zibwenzi za digito zimapambana mpikisano wongopeka uwu ndipamene kuyankhulana kumakhudzidwa. Mukalowa patsamba la zibwenzi mupeza njira zambiri zopangira ubale ndi osakwatiwa ena. Mutha kupezerapo mwayi pa ‘njira zazifupi’ za zibwenzi zambiri, monga kuyika ‘like’ patsamba la mbiri ya munthu wina, kapena kuwatumizira ‘tsinzini.’ Mukangofika pamlingo wotengera chibwenzi chanu pamlingo wina, mutha kutumiza mwachindunji tumizani mauthenga kudzera pa meseji kapena imelo, kuyimbirana pafoni, kapenanso kucheza pavidiyo. Njira zonsezi zowongolera zogwira ntchito zimapangitsa kukhala kosavuta kupanga chemistry. Izi ndizabwino kwambiri kuposa chilichonse chomwe mwina mumachidziwa pa intaneti.
Anthu amatha kupanga chemistry mosavuta
Mwinamwake mwakumanapo ndi momwe zinthu zilili mu kalabu kapena malo ogulitsira komwe mwakhala mukusemphana maganizo ndi mnzanu yemwe mungathe kukhala naye, kuti wina abwere mukapita kukagula kuzungulira. Padzakhala zosokoneza nthawi zonse mukagawana malo ndi osakwatiwa ena, onse kufunafuna zotsatira zofanana. Kukambitsirana m'modzi-m'modzi pa intaneti kudzakhala kusintha kotsitsimula ku chilichonse chomwe mungakumane nacho pamayendedwe azibwenzi. Mutha kutenga nthawi yanu kupanga ubale, kupeza zinthu zonse zomwe mumafanana. Kapena ngati mukuyang'ana zokumana wamba, mutha kuyatsa zilakolako zachilakolako popanda kunyengerera pang'ono musanasinthane.
Malo azibwenzi nthawi zambiri amakhala oyambira
Ndikoyenera kunena kuti malo ogulitsa digito ndi abwino kupereka malo omwe osakwatira angasonkhaneko kusakatula mbiri kapena kucheza m'zipinda zochezeramo. Ndizokhudza kutsogolera misonkhano pakati pa anthu ogwirizana. Koma osakwatiwa ambiri amatha kudalira kwambiri malo otonthoza, kukhala ndi chizolowezi chotumizirana mauthenga pafupipafupi, kwinaku akuwononga nthawi ndikuwona zambiri za obwera kumene patsamba. Ngati mukufuna kupanga ubale wabwino ndi wina, tikulimbikitsidwa kuti muyambe kuchoka pa 'digito kupita ku chikhalidwe' posachedwa. Pokhapokha mukakumana ndi munthu maso ndi maso mudzalumikizana moona mtima, kuzindikira zobisika za umunthu zomwe zimabisika ndi kusinthanitsa mawu.