Ushinzwe imyenda wambara kandi ugomba gutunga ibyo wambaye byose. Bisaba kwigirira icyizere, kwitondera amakuru arambuye, kandi byanze bikunze bikwiye kugaragara neza muri byo. Mbere yo kugura, tekereza ibipimo byawe nkumugabo kandi urebe ko imyenda yawe yagenewe guhuza imiterere yawe. Ibyiza ni uburyo byumva umubiri wawe. Uburyo abantu bakwitwaramo mugihe wambaye neza birashimishije. Urumva umeze neza kandi wizeye hamwe no gushimwa, ugatangira gushima abandi kumugaragaro. Raporo y’ubushakashatsi ivuga ko abagabo bambaye neza bafatwa nkabasambanyi, abanyabwenge, bakunzwe cyane, kandi bakundwa cyane.
Muri iki kiganiro, tugiye kuguha ubuyobozi bwuburyo bwo kuba umugabo wambaye neza.
Shaka imyambaro iboneye
Iyo bigeze ku buryo bukomeye, bikwiye ni kimwe mu bintu by'ingenzi. Bajugunya umubiri wawe mugihe imyenda idahuye neza. Imyenda nini cyane ituma ugaragara nk'ubunebwe kubera imyenda nini irenze. Abagabo bamwe bahitamo kwambara imyenda yagutse kuri bo kuko bumva baruhutse bityo ntibumve uburyo imyenda igomba guhura mbere. Benshi mubagabo, cyane cyane abasore mugufi bambara ipantaro, ifite santimetero 2 kugeza kuri 3. Amaboko maremare cyane, ipantaro yuzuye imifuka, hamwe na kositimu nini cyane hirya no hino nibindi bibazo bisanzwe. Kugabanuka bizakemura ijanisha rinini ryibi bibazo. Iyo wambaye imyenda ibereye, uzagaragara ko bitangaje. Kwisanzura neza biragufasha kureba muburyo bworoshye kandi nta kintu na kimwe gishimishije cyimiterere yawe.
Imyambarire ishingiye ku bihe
Imiterere nayo ni ukwambara neza kubidukikije kandi nikimenyetso cyo kubaha abandi nabo. Tekereza imyenda nka code; ukeneye guhuza neza kugirango ukore hamwe nimiterere urimo. Kandi nibyo niba hari ikintu ari ibirori byo kurya cyangwa weekend ititaye kumubari. Imiterere iteye ubwoba nimwe idahari igihe cyose. Hano hari amaduka menshi aboneka kumurongo ufite amahitamo yagutse kandi atanga imyenda yabagabo hamwe nibirango byo kwisi yose. Nk’uko abahanga bo muri Roden Gray babitangaza, ni ngombwa gushakisha icyegeranyo kidasanzwe gifite ibishya kandi byibanze byishimira umuco n’ubudasa. Kugabana kumenyekanisha kubishushanyo mbonera, no kwerekana ibintu byiza kandi bikora nabyo ni ngombwa.
Wibande ku Byibanze
Icyemezo kibi abantu bafata mugihe bagerageza kunoza uburyo bwabo nukwizera ko bakeneye kubaka umwimerere kandi wihariye kugiti cyabo. Mugihe utangiye kunoza uburyo bwawe, banza wige ubwoko bwa kera, hanyuma wongereho buhoro buhoro gukoraho kwawe nyuma. Hafi yimyambarire yose amazina manini yagumye yoroheje kandi yishingikirije kubyingenzi. Niba ubwo atari bwo buryo bwabo, ntibitaye ku gukora itangazo. Abasore benshi bagaruka mubice byabo byoroheje mugihe bigatuma bikwiye gushora mubice byiza bizakomeza kugaragara neza nyuma yo kwambara no gukina nibintu byinshi mubyo wakusanyije. Gupfukirana ibya ngombwa nka t-shati yera ikwiranye neza, swater idafite aho ibogamiye, ikoti ry'uruhu, hamwe na tees zifite amabara yoroheje.
Wambare amabara atabogamye
Abantu bamwe bakunda guhuza amabara atandukanye akomeye, afite imbaraga kugirango bagaragare ko bishimishije kandi bigezweho kuko bumva bishimiye kwambara imyenda itandukanye. Ukuri nukuri, biragoye guteranya ibintu byiza, bifite imbaraga mumyambarire no kubihuza nibindi bisobanuro byawe. Kandi mumyambarire imwe, niba wambaye amabara menshi, ibintu bigenda bigorana gato. Ukuri nukuri, ntibishoboka rwose kwinjiza ibintu byiza, byamabara muburyo no kubihuza nibindi bisigaye bya imyenda yawe. Ibara rikoreshwa neza muburyo butagereranywa, kuburyo rigizwe ahanini namabara atabogamye nka tan, umutuku, khaki, umukara, umweru, nizuru kugirango ukomeze uburyo bwawe. Nkuko aribyo bihindagurika kandi bigashimisha isi yose nkutabogamye kwukuri, urashobora kandi kongeramo imyelayo, navy, nibindi bicucu byubururu.
Nyamara, abagabo benshi birinda rwose gutandukana kwinshi cyangwa amabara atuje igihe cyose bambaye batinya kudashima guhuza. Ntutinye gukina namabara nubushushanyo buke, kuko bizagera kure kugirango uburyo bwawe busa nkana kandi ubizi. Urashobora kugerageza utuntu duto duto twamabara yoroshye hamwe hejuru hejuru, urashobora gukoresha ibikoresho nkibikarito kugirango ugerageze gato mumabara no mubishushanyo.