Umzekelo we-Instagram, uBawo onebhongo, ofuna i-adventure kunye nobomi obupheleleyo eli lixesha lokuvuma: Dibana noTom Ernsting-Okhethekileyo kwiFashoni yobudoda.
Ukusuka kwiSigqeba soThengiso seHotele owayesakuba kwisiXeko saseNew York ukuba abe yimodeli yexesha elizeleyo "kwiminyaka ethile" eMzantsi Florida, masidibane noTom.
Sesiza kuntywila kumanani akhuthazayo avela kwi-intanethi, yiyo loo nto sikhetha uTom okanye esikhethe… siza kufunda imibuzo yobuqu, iingcinga ezixhokonxayo, kwaye uya kuyonwabela imifanekiso emangalisayo kaTom ngexesha lomsebenzi wakhe wokuba ngumzekelo.
UTom emva kwaloo mehlo anenkungu kunye netyuwa kunye neenwele zepepile, u-6'2 ekwimo entle yokuqwalasela imodeli "yeminyaka ethile".
Indoda enefashoni: Molo Tom. Sixelele kancinci malunga nomsebenzi wakho. Iziqalo zakho kwaye kutheni ucinga ngokusuka eNYC uye emazantsi eFlorida
UTom Ernsting: Bendilungiselela ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi phambi kwexesha. Bobabini abazali bam basweleka besebancinci kwaye ndafumana ilifa labazali bam kwikhaya lomhlalaphantsi eNaples…emva kokushiya umsebenzi wam kwiminyaka emithathu edlulileyo njengomlawuli wentengiso wehlabathi kwiofisi yoshishino eMandarin Oriental Hotel Group e-NYC … ndakwazi ukukhulisa iindevu. (Yayichasene nomgaqo-nkqubo wenkampani.) “Inkangeleko” entsha ifumene ingqwalasela enkulu kwaye ekugqibeleni yandityhalela kwicala lam lokuqala lokubonisa imodeli: iMP MEGA Miami…kwaye ndanda ukusuka apho.
FM: Ngoobani abaye baba nefuthe elikhulu kumsebenzi wakho wokumodela?
TE: UMnu. Eric Rutherford ngokuqinisekileyo. Wenza yonke into enodidi olunjalo kunye nobabalo kwaye uhlala ekhangeleka kwaye evuya xa esenza. Kwakhona, abafoti ababini abaphambili: uRon Reagan kunye noScott Teitler (bandithathele imifanekiso etshintsha umdlalo.) Ukususela ngoko ndiye ndafumana ithuba lokusebenza nabafoti ababalaseleyo kunye nabacwangcisi kunye nabantu be-make-up abaye bandikhuthaza kwaye bandinceda. ixesha elide.
FM: Ngawaphi amaxesha owathanda kakhulu kwikhondo lakho lokumodela?
TE: Ngokuqinisekileyo ndisayine ne-arhente yam yokuqala ... bekunzima kakhulu ukukholelwa ukuba ngenene ndiyifumene le nto. Emva koko, xa ndityikitya i-arhente yam yesibini ... oko kwabonisa ukuba yayingaphezulu nje kwe-fluke. Omnye umzuzu owuthandayo njengoko ucelwa BUYELA ukuba uqhubeke nokwenza imodeli ye-Ashely Furniture (intengiso yam yokuqala, yesibini neyesithathu yelizwe). Kwaye ukhethelwe iOrange Theory-indoda “yesilivere” phakathi kwawo onke amabhinqa aselula amahle kwishot.
I-FM: Ukuba nabalandeli be-125K (kunye nokubala) kwi-Instagram kuthetha into, ucinga ukuba abantu bayakuthanda kwaye bakuthanda kakhulu?
TE: Ndicinga ukuba ndinxulumana nabantu abaninzi abahlukeneyo. Iyakhuthaza kwaye iyakhuthaza. Ukufaneleka ngundoqo kwingqalelo ngokunjalo kwaye ndikhuthaza #qhubeka nomsebenzi kubo bonke ubudala kunye nesini. Ndikwafumana noluvo lokuba i-IG feed yam ibonelela kwaye ijonge ngokunyanisekileyo kubomi bam….imbi kwaye intle. Amaxesha amahle namabi. Kwaye ngaphezulu kwama-50 inokuba yi-PRIME yobomi bakho.
Ndikwafumene abalandeli abaninzi “ngokuloba iikati”. Isazisi sam sisetyenziswe ngoo-100 kunye ne-100s yabalobi beekati kuyo yonke indawo yemidiya yoluntu enokucingeleka kwihlabathi jikelele. (match.com; millionairematch.com;
Isigrisi; iTinder; Twitter, IG, Facebook, kunye nabanye abaninzi. Ndifumana imiyalezo emi-5 ukuya kweyi-6 ngosuku kubantu abaqhathwayo ngobuni bam. Ngokukhangela umva ngesazisi la madoda kunye nabasetyhini (ubukhulu becala abasetyhini) bafumana i-REAL Tom Ernsting kwaye baphele bengabalandeli abaxhasayo.
FM: Uvula indoda yesitabane, unomntu wakho, inclusive you have kid(s) uphume nini? Kwaye ugqibe nini ukuba nabantwana? Okanye ibingelocebo?
TE: Ndandineminyaka emibini nditshatile ndaze ndasikelelwa ngonyana…oyena mntu ulungileyo ngam. Ndaphuma ndaya kuye xa wayeneminyaka eli-13 ubudala...ndandingazange ndoyike ngolu hlobo ebomini bam. Wayeyeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bam kwaye ukuphulukana nothando lwakhe bekuya kuba buhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa wayeqole kakhulu ngayo kwaye sisondelelene kakhulu kwaye AKUMELE ibe ngumcimbi okanye iintloni kuye. (Eminye yemifanekiso yam kwi-IG inokuba yiLOL.)
I-FM: Nanamhla oku, abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba umntu othandana nomntu ongatshatanga naye akavumelekanga ukuba abe nabantwana—ukungazi ayisontsikelelo– kwaye izimvo ezininzi zisenokuba bubudenge kwaye abantu basenokuphambana kwaye bakruquke, ngaba kukho umntu okuxhaphazayo ebomini bakho okanye kwimidiya yoluntu. ?
TE: Ndibe nethamsanqa lokungasokoli njengokuba abanye baye benza ngokuxhatshazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa kwimidiya yoluntu. Ubukhulu becala kuye kwaxhaswa kakhulu.
FM: Indlela owugcina ngayo umzimba oqinileyo, isixelela into yokugcina inkuthazo yokuya ejimini kwaye usebenze ngakumbi kule mihla.
TE: Ndizilolongela yonke imihla. Yintoni abantu abaninzi abangaziyo kukuba ndibe nothotho lotyando olundibuyisela umva ngokwasemoyeni nasemzimbeni iminyaka emi-5. Umzimba wam u-atrophied kwaye ndalahlekelwa ubunzima obuninzi.Kuphela kwiminyaka eyi-4 edlulileyo umzimba wam womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube kwindawo apho ndiziva ndiqinisekile kwaye ndilungile ngomzimba wam. Nangona ndisenza i-PT ndenza imithambo YONKE IMIHLA nangoku.
FM: Uneprofayile yabalandeli kuphela, leliphi ilungu okanye amalungu omzimba wakho ofumana ukunconywa kakhulu?
TE: HA HA HA. Yikholelwe okanye ungayikholelwa…mayinxibe ngokupheleleyo…uncumo lwam lufumana eyona ngxelo.
FM: Onke amafoto akho kwimpahla yangaphantsi nasebhedini ayanconywa kwaye athandwa ngabantu abaninzi, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba unohlobo oluthandwayo kunye nesimbo sempahla yangaphantsi?
TE: Andifuni .......Ndibe nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba abaxhasi bam bandithumelele impahla yangaphantsi kunye neesuti zokuqubha kwaye ibe yindlela entle yokubonelela ngomxholo kwi-IG yam kunye nokwabelana ngeempawu ezinamandla.
FM: Asikho kwezopolitiko kwaphela. Kodwa ngoku iMelika iphila kwimeko ebuthathaka kakhulu, ucinga ntoni ngelizwe lakho, kwaye uzigcina njani ubhadlile ngento eninzi i-bullish*t gaphandle phaya? Ngaba wenza ukucamngca, iyoga okanye imidlalo ...?
TE: Ukungazi kuluyolo…Ndigqibele ndihamba KANGAKA kangangokuba andinalo nexesha lokufunda okanye lokuphulaphula izinto ezingaqhelekanga zamvanje….kodwa xa ndidibana nento ethi thiki engqondweni yam into yokuba sikwindawo embi kakhulu kwihlabathi. Ndibala iintsuku zonyulo oluzayo.
FM: Ngaba ucinga ukuba ikhona ubudala kwikhondo lomsebenzi weemodeli zamadoda? Sixelele amava akho...
TE: Ndaya kwimodeli eneminyaka engama-56… ndisazi ukuba ndiyintoni kwaye ndingena phi kwaye yeyiphi imakethi endiyizalisayo.
Ndicinga ukuba ukuba ndikhulele kwishishini bekuya kuba nembono eyahlukileyo ... kodwa kum isitayile sam se "50s emva kwexesha lesilivere" sibonakala somelele.
FM: Ungathini kuTom Ernsting oneminyaka engama-23 ubudala?
TE: Ndingaxelela uTom oneminyaka engama-23 ukuba azive ezithembile kwizigqibo zakho…kodwa unobubele ebantwini…mamela, kwaye unobomi obumnandi ngaphambili.
FM: Ngaba uyathanda ukutya okanye ukonwabela ityala xa usitya?
TE: Ndi….ndiyayithanda ipizza….lasagna…..chocolate croissants…….kodwa ndiyahoya…nantoni na engaphezulu ayilunganga.
FM: Xa ukwijimu ngaba kukho elona lungu lomzimba ulithandayo nolithanda kakhulu ukuba ulilolonge?
TE: Ndisebenza kumzimba wam ongezantsi kakhulu ... kodwa ndenza ilungu lomzimba elinye ngosuku ukuzama ukugcina ibhalansi. Ndinebhongo kakhulu ngendlela umzimba wam oye wasabela ngayo ekuzinikezeleni kokufaneleka kwaye ukuba indinika ukuzithemba endingazange ndibe nako ngaphambili. Kwaye kuye kwandinceda kakhulu ukwenza imodeli yam.
FM: Sisanda kuqala unyaka omtsha kwaye abantu abaninzi-ndibandakanyiwe nam- bayasokola kwizigqibo. Uzigcina njani ukhuthazekile kwaye nawaphi na amagama abantu abanokuthi bawuyeke ngokulula umthambo.
TE: #qhubeka nomsebenzi. Ukuba uhlala kuyo UYA kubona iziphumo. Ukuziva ulungile malunga nendlela okhangeleka ngayo kubaluleke kakhulu kulonwabo kunye nokuba sempilweni komntu wonke.
FM: Ungumphathi wemisitho ozimeleyo eFlorida, yeyiphi iminyhadala ocinga ukwenza umsebenzi wedwa?
TE: Ulawulo lomnyhadala ozimeleyo lundithatha kwihlabathi lonke ukuxhasa ulawulo lwemisitho yabo-ukusuka kwiintlanganiso zentengiso ukuya kwinkuthazo ukuya ekuqalisweni kwemveliso.
FM: Singafikelela njani kuwe Tom, ngaba uku-Instagram kuphela?
TE: @tomdeanernsting yeyona nto ilungileyo.
FM: Enkosi kakhulu Tom kube luyolo, nawaphi na amazwi okugqibela kubo bonke abantu abakuthandayo nabakuthandayo?
TE: ENKOSI NGENKXASO.
Ndinexesha elibi kakhulu lokuguqula i-50 ... ndiziva ngathi "ubomi bam buphelile"... kodwa ngokwenene akukaze kube ngcono kwaye ndingakhuthaza WONKE UMNTU ukuba ajonge phambili ekugugeni ... ukuhlola izinto ezintsha, ukuzisa bonke ubulumko ebomini bakho ukwenza. izigqibo eziya kukhokelela kubomi obungcono kuwe nakwabanye.
Unokulandela uTom Ernsting e-@tomdeanernsting.