Phantse wonke umntu esimaziyo unokufumaneka kwi-intanethi! Wonke umntu unento yakhe kwimidiya yoluntu: ngakumbi abantu abatsha. Enoba ubani uyakuthanda ukudanisa okanye uyakuthanda ukuthumela imifanekiso yakhe esonwabele ikomityi yekofu ngentsasa yangeCawa, kulula ukuba ubani athabatheke kumnqweno wokuphila nabantu. Nangona kunjalo, ngokungazi, aba bantu bavumela imithombo yeendaba enxibelelanayo ichaphazele ukuthatha kwabo iglobhu kunye nobuntu babo buphela.
Ukudala i-online persona kunemiphumo emihle kunye nembi kwindlela yokuziphatha komntu. Iplanethi ebonakalayo inefuthe elibi kwiimbono zomntu zokuba umhlaba wokwenyani unokuqalisa ukuziva ulinkohliso. Amajelo eendaba achaphazela iinkalo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo zoluntu, ezinokufundwa ngokubanzi kumaphepha abafundi malunga nemidiya yoluntu. Kulula ukuba umntu abelane ngecwecwe lakhe leefoto okanye iinkcukacha zamava akhe aphilayo kumnatha, kodwa ukwabelana ngemibandela enjalo yobomi bakhe kunokuba neziphumo ezibi kubuntu bakhe.
Ukuvela kweembono ezintsha kunxibelelwano
Kwiiforamu ezisebenzisanayo, ukusebenzisana kwabantu abadala kunye nabaselula kunye noontanga babo kwahlukile kunokunxibelelana okuqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, umgama wokuma komhlaba woyiswe, yaye ubani unokuzibonakalisa ngokukhululekileyo ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ukusuka kunxibelelwano lomlomo ukuya kubhaliweyo, nantoni na inokwenzeka ngomnatha. Uphononongo olwenziwe nguDooly ngo-2017 lukwabonise ukuba abantu ababandakanyekanga kuphela kunxibelelwano lomlomo nolubhaliweyo kodwa banxibelelana ngezinye iindlela ezinje ngeefoto kunye neevidiyo.
Noko ke, abanye baba ngamaxhoba okuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi. Uphando olwenziwe nguBoyd ngo-2011 lubonisa ukuba abanye abantu benza ubuntu obunganyanisekanga kwi-intanethi kwaye benze ngokwahlukileyo kwindlela abaqhele ukuziphatha ngayo kubomi obuqhelekileyo. Sinokufumana abantu abaliqela kwihlabathi liphela abakulungeleyo ukujonga amacala abo kumnatha. Ngokwenza i-avatar yobuxoki, umntu unokutshintsha ubuni babo okanye akhusele abantu abaninzi ngempumelelo. Ukusebenzisana nge-avatar yobuxoki ixesha elide kunokuqala ukuchaphazela ubuntu obuqhelekileyo bomntu.
Ukulunga nokubi kokuzithemba komntu kwi amajelo eendaba
strong>Uninzi lwabantu luya kwiintlalo zabo ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo enokuba nayo kukuzithemba kwabo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, bayaqonda ukuba oko kucingwa ngoontanga babo ngabo kunokuchaphazela iimvakalelo nobuntu babo. Uninzi lwabantu abasebenzayo kwiiforam zabo zentlalo ngokuqinisekileyo baphenjelelwa linani 'lokuthanda' abakufumanayo kwimifanekiso yabo yamva nje okanye inani labalandeli kwiakhawunti yabo ye-Instagram okanye ye-Twitter. Nangona inyaniso ikukuba akukho nanye kwezi zinto, umntu unokukhawuleza ehle kwesi saqhwithi kwaye alahleke kwii-'likes' kunye 'ne-retweets.'
Uninzi lwabaphembeleli kumajelo eendaba babonisa umfanekiso 'ogqibeleleyo'. Bathumela eyona mifanekiso mihle yabo ihlelwe kakhulu ukuze ilingane nemigangatho yoshishino, benze ngathi baseholideyini rhoqo ngeveki enye, kwaye bangaze babonise ubunzima babo kubalandeli babo. Abantu ababona ezi nkohliso zigqibeleleyo baqala ukuthandabuza ubuqu babo kunye nokubaluleka kwabo. Unxibelelwano loluntu lube nefuthe elibi kwisizukulwana esitsha, ekufuneka sijongiwe kwihlabathi jikelele ukwenza ubomi buqheleke.
Iziphumo zokulandela ukugqibelela okunjalo kumaqonga anjalo unokuhamba ngaphaya kwengqondo kwaye ufikelele kwiinkalo zomzimba womntu. Bambi basenokuhendelwa ekubeni baphile ngendlela efanayo neyabo babathandayo, yaye oko kusenokuzisa utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela abanxiba ngayo, abathetha ngayo, nabahlobo ababagcinayo. Kukho umzabalazo othe gqolo phakathi kwabanqwenela ukuba ngabaphembeleli ukuba bamkelwe ngabalandeli babo, banqulwe nkqu. Kwezinye iimeko, abantu baye bakhokelelwa kudandatheko ngenxa yoxinzelelo olukhulayo lokungangeni kwizinto ezilindelwe luluntu.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, abaninzi bakhotyokiswe kakhulu kwiifowuni zabo kwaye abanakuhamba imizuzu embalwa ngaphandle kokujonga kwintlalontle yabo. Bakwimeko ethe rhoqo yonxunguphalo, belindele nje isaziso esilandelayo ukuba sivele kwiifowuni zabo. Umntu unokufunda ngakumbi malunga neziphumo zoyikekayo kweli phepha. Oku kubangele ukuba bahlukane nobomi bokwenene yaye kuye kwabangela iingxaki ezinjengokungalali kakuhle, ukuxhalaba, nokungakwazi ukusebenza ngendlela eqhelekileyo.
Ayisiyiyo yonke into embi, nangona kunjalo!
Uninzi lwabantwana kule mihla luncanyathiselwe kwiifowuni kunye neetafile zabo, nto leyo ethe yavusa abazali babo malunga nokuba bangavunyelwa na bayenze loo nto. Ngelixa kukho izinto ezininzi ezingalunganga zokusebenza kumajelo eendaba, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke into embi. Abantu abaliqela benze umbulelo omkhulu kumandla eeforum ezisebenzisanayo. Enkosi ngokwabelana ngokulula, abantu abayilayo banokuyila ngokulula kwaye babelane ngobugcisa babo nezigidi zabalandeli babo. Nokuba umntu wenza imizobo yamalahle okanye wenza iivlogs ezonwabileyo zemihla ngemihla, amaqonga amaninzi avumela abantu abanjalo ukuba babelane ngobuchule babo nehlabathi.
Aba baphembeleli abakwazi nje ukuzakhela ubomi bamaphupha abo kodwa baye baphembelela isizukulwana sabalandeli kwaye bababonisa ukuba nantoni na inokwenzeka. Abaphembeleli abanjalo bavusa umbono kubalandeli babo kwaye babazise ukuba umntu unokukhulula amandla akhe okwenyani ngokuzamkela ngokupheleleyo.
Kwakhona kuye kwenza kwaba nokwenzeka ukuba ubani ahlale enxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho olukude. Ngokujonga kwiakhawunti yomntu yentlalo, sinokwaziswa ngokulula malunga nabantu esibathandayo kunye neziganeko zamva nje.
Kuyo yonke loo nto, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba sihlala ekuhlaleni hayi kwi-net. Nathi asizalelwanga ukuba samkelwe kodwa ukuze sivumele abanye bavuye ngobuntu bethu. Kungcono kuthi ukuba singangeni kwi-glitz kunye nobukhazikhazi beendaba kwaye senze ezona zixhobo zingcono endaweni yoko.