Umntu utshintshe kakhulu kwinkulungwane yama-21. Njengoko amadoda amaninzi esamkela amacala awo angokweemvakalelo navakalisayo, indoda yale mihla ingamandla afanelekileyo kungekuphela nje kuye, kodwa nakwabanye. Kwaye umntu wanamhlanje uyaqhubeka efumana ukuphefumlelwa okumnceda ukuba akhule njengomntu ukuze ekugqibeleni aphile ubomi obuphilileyo kwaye abelane nabanye ngemilinganiselo yakhe.
Nazi izinto ezilishumi ezikhuthaza umntu wale mihla.
1. Ukuvakalisa
Umntu wale mihla uphefumlelwe yintetho kwaye uvakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe, iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga. Ufumana inkuthazo kwabo bamngqongileyo kwaye akasuki kwisidingo sakhe sokuthetha ngenxa yabo bahlekisa ngaye. Indoda yanamhlanje ikholelwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba indoda ikhale, ihleke kwaye ifumane yonke imvakalelo.
2. Ukumelwa ngokufanelekileyo
Indoda yanamhlanje ikholelwa ukuba wonke umntu ufanelwe yithuba elifanelekileyo ngokusekelwe kubuchule bakhe. Uqwalasela imizabalazo yomntu wonke kwaye, xa enegunya, unenjongo yokwandisa ukumelwa kweqela ngalinye. Kwakhona uphefumlelwe ukuba enze isabelo sakhe esilinganayo somsebenzi kwaye aphule imimiselo echaza umsebenzi othile owenziwe ngesini esinye.
3. Phulaphula
Indoda yanamhlanje ihlala ikulungele ukufunda kwaye inika ukubaluleka okukhulu ekuphulaphuleni. Ubaphulaphula ngengqondo ephangaleleyo abo bamngqongileyo yaye ukulungele ukwenza iinguqulelo kwiinkolelo zakhe ezisenokuba zineziphene ngandlel’ ithile. Uphefumlelwe ukuba azi indlela yokumamela iipodcasts kwaye enze umkhwa wokumamela iipodcasts rhoqo ukuze ufunde kubantu abakhuthazayo.
4. Intelligence Emotional
Indoda yanamhlanje inika ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo kubaluleke kakhulu njenge-IQ yomntu. Ujonge ukuhlakulela ubukrelekrele beemvakalelo kuye kwaye uzama ukushumayela kwabo bamngqongileyo. Ukwaphefumlelwe ukuba asebenzise oku kwiindawo zolawulo kwaye ayisebenzise ukudala indawo yokusebenza ephilileyo nekhuthazayo kwaye ingadli kunye ne-brittle.
5. Ukuzonwabisa
I-adventure iza ngeendlela ezininzi kwindoda yanamhlanje, nantoni na ukusuka ekuxhumekeni kwe-bungee ukuya ekutyibilikeni kwisilayidi somntwana. I-Adventure iyamvuyisa umntu wale mihla kwaye uhlala ephefumlelwe ukuba enze imisebenzi enomdla kuye, imnike uvuyo kwaye impompoze igazi lakhe. Uchaza i-adventure yakhe kwaye uhlala efumana ixesha layo.
6. Ukuhamba
Umntu wale mihla usebenzisa imali yakhe ukwenza iinkumbulo. Uphefumlelwe ukuba ahambe kwaye aqhubele le mpembelelo ngokuyigcina njengenjongo yekamva lakhe. Uchitha ixesha kunye naye kunye nabasondeleyo bakhe, uphuma kwi-9 ukuya kwi-5 kwaye udibanisa ngokwenene naye. Usenokungahambi amazwekazi kodwa athabathe uhambo nje. Uzifakela ngokwakhe kwaye azihoye.
7. Impumelelo
Impumelelo iya kuba yinkuthazo kubo bonke ngonaphakade. Kodwa indoda yanamhlanje yenza inkcazo yayo iguquguquke kwizinto ezinomdla kunye nezinto eziphambili. Ngoku akakholelwa ukuba impumelelo ifumaneka ngokuthenga indlu enkulu okanye ukufumana imoto yexabiso eliphezulu. Ukholelwa ukuba impumelelo isenokuba kukukhulisela umntwana kwindawo entle, ukupeyinta umfanekiso, ukufunda indlela yokucamngca, ukuba ngumyeni ongcono, ukudala iqela elivumelanayo labasebenzi njalo njalo.
8. Imfundo yezeMali
Indoda yanamhlanje inika imfundo yezemali kunye nenkululeko ukubaluleka kwayo. Uchitha ixesha efunda ngomthetho, ukwenza imali kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokutyala. Utyala imali yakhe ngokufumana imfundo nokufunda iincwadi ezimfundisa ngakumbi ngendlela yokonga nokulawula imali. Uphila ngaphandle kwamatyala kwaye uhlala ekulungele ukuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo ukuze agcine ixhala lemali.
9. Ubuncinci
I-Minimalism ikhuthaza indoda yanamhlanje ukuba iphile ubomi obunenjongo ngakumbi kwaye ihlukanise nabo balandela uluhlu lwemithetho echaza oko kwenza umntu onwabe. Ulahla yonke into engamniki ixabiso kwaye yongeza ebomini bakhe oko kumnika ixabiso elingakumbi. Uqhutywa ukuba afumane inkuthazo ngakumbi kuzo zonke ezinye iingongoma ezikhankanyiweyo ngokulandela ubomi obuncinci kunye nobunenjongo.
10. Art
Indoda yanamhlanje iyakuthanda ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuvelisa ubugcisa. Ubugcisa, ngokwendoda yanamhlanje, nantoni na emnika uvuyo kwaye ibeka i-aestheticism kunye nexabiso kwi-pedestal efanayo. Udala ubugcisa obumvuyisayo kwaye bubandakanya ubugcisa ebomini bakhe obunokuba nantoni na ukusuka kumculo ukuya kwizinto zobumba. Ubugcisa bungulwelo kwindalo kwaye indoda yanamhlanje iphefumlelwe ukuba ikhokele ubomi bokuyila.
Ukuqukumbela
Ezi zizinto ze-10 ezikhuthaza umntu wanamhlanje namhlanje. Njengoko amaxesha etshintsha, ezi zikhuthazo ziyaqhubeka nokuhlala zimanzi kwaye ziqhubeke nokumkhuthaza ukuba abe yindoda engcono kuye nakwabo bamngqongileyo. Ufumana iindlela zokuba negalelo kokusingqongileyo, kokwakhe kunye nehlabathi liphela. Unesimo esihle, unomdla kwaye uyaphumelela ekongezeni ixabiso kwihlabathi ahlala kulo. Ezi zizinto zonke ezikhuthaza umntu wale mihla.