Ukuya kuMhla kunokuba ngumsebenzi omkhulu onokufuna iinzame kwicala lakho. Ufuna ukwenza eyona mpembelelo ilungileyo kumntu wakho omthandayo okanye umntu onokuthi udibane naye okokuqala. Nanini na xa umntu ekubona okokuqala umbono wakhe udalwa ziimpahla ozinxibayo. Yindlela onxiba ngayo ebangela ukuba umntu athatheke. Ungaqala udibana nomntu okanye uthandana naye.
Ukunxiba kubonisa imizamo kwaye omnye umntu uvakalelwa kukuba wenze imizamo kuye. Oku kuthumela umqondiso olungileyo komnye umntu. Kodwa indlela yokunxiba ngokuyilayo kuMhla ngumbuzo. Ukugqoka kakuhle umhla, unokulandela la manqaku alandelayo.
La manqaku aya kukunceda ekujongeni ngcono kwaye aya kukunceda ekudaleni olona phawu lulungileyo olunokubakho komnye umntu. Ezi ngongoma zezi:
Ceba Kwangethuba
Ukulungiselela uMhla ngomzuzu wokugqibela kunokuba luxinzelelo. Usenokungakwazi ukufumana eyona ilokhwe ifanelekileyo ekufanelayo. Ukucwangcisa kuya kukunceda ekongeni ixesha elininzi kunye noxinzelelo. Uya kuba nako ukukhetha ilokhwe ngokohlobo loMhla. Ungaphinda ube nako ukuya ezivenkileni ukuba ufuna ukwenza njalo.Nxiba ngokoMhla
Umhla inkonkxa yeentlobo ezininzi ezifana nomhla wokuqala, umhla wesiqhelo, kunye nomhla osesikweni. Kufuneka unxibe ngokomhla. Ngomhla oqhelekileyo, unokugqoka ihembe eliqhelekileyo okanye i-t-shirt kunye nejee kunye neebhulukhwe. Ukuba uhamba ngomhla osemthethweni, unokunxiba ilokhwe.
Iimpahla ezicocekileyo nezicocekileyo
Kulungile oku kunokubonakala ngathi linqaku elincinci kodwa lenza umahluko omkhulu. Nanini na usiya kuthandana, iimpahla ozinxibileyo kufuneka zicoceke kwaye zicoceke. Nokuba bubulumko ilokhwe yakho egqwesileyo okanye ihempe kunye neebhulukhwe zinokubonakala zingenamsebenzi kwaphela. Ke, hlala unxibe iimpahla ezicocekileyo nezi-ayinwe kakuhle.
Yila ihempe yakho
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwenza olo luvo luhlala luhleli kwaye ufuna ukunxiba ngokuyilayo kuya kufuneka yila ihempe yakho . Oku kunokubonakala ngathi ngumbono ongaqhelekanga kodwa kufuneka uzame ukuba ufuna ukwahluka kwabanye abantu ngomhla. Oku kunokuba yimpendulo kumbuzo wakho wendlela yokunxiba ngokuyilayo kuMhla . Unokwenza ngokulula ihempe yakho yokuyila.IiSweatha zesiko
Enye indlela yokunxiba ngokuyilayo ingaba iijezi zesiko. Abantu banxiba iimpahla ezinegama eliqhelekileyo ngosuku. Kodwa unganxiba enye yakho iijezi zesiko eya kukunceda ukuba ugqame. Le yindlela yokudala yokunxiba ngomhla onokuthi uzame.
Ke, unokunxiba ngokuyilayo kwaye ujonge kakuhle ngomhla ngokulandela la manqaku akhankanywe ngasentla. Baya kukunceda ekudaleni impembelelo entle komnye umntu. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuzama into entsha ngoko ungazama ukhetho loku yila ihempe yakho kunye neejezi zesiko. Ezi ziindlela ezintsha zokujonga kakuhle kuMhla.