Ngaba ukuya kwi-intanethi ukuze uqhagamshelane namaqabane anokubakho kuya kuze kube 'yesiqhelo' kubantu abangabodwa? Ngumbuzo obonisa ukwanda kwamanani abantu abangabodwa abatsalela ukuthandana kwi-intanethi. (Kwabo banomdla kwizibalo ezingemva kwesi nkcazo, ngoku kukho amawaka ewebhusayithi ezihambelanayo phaya, ezilungiselela uluhlu oluninzi lwezinto ezithandayo, kwaye ngoku ziqalisa ngaphezulu kwesinye kwisithathu sobudlelwane bale mihla). Kakade ke, eli nani lisenokuthatyathwa ukuze libonise ukuba isibini kwisithathu sezibini sisadibana kwiimeko ‘zesithethe’ ngakumbi. Kodwa sisahlulo sesithathu saloo grafu ekhula kakhulu. Nazi izizathu zokuba kutheni ukuthandana kwedijithali kunokuthi, okanye kungenzeki, kuthathe indawo yoluhlu olungaxhunyiwe kwi-intanethi.
Iisayithi zibonelela ngoluhlu lwezinto ezithandayo
Enye indawo apho ukuya kwi-intanethi kudlula indlela 'endala' yokukhangela umntu ofanelekileyo kubudlelwane ngabantu abaqolileyo abathandana nabo. Abantu abasele betyhubela amahla-ndinyuka olwalamano, mhlawumbi abajamelene nentlungu yoqhawulo-mtshato okanye yokufelwa, basenokuba sele befikelele kwinqanaba lokuba banqwenele ukwenza isiqalo esitsha ebomini babo. Ngokukodwa uthando lwabo luphila! Abangatshatanga abaqolileyo banokuziva bengakhululekanga ukufuna imimoya yomhlobo kwiklabhu edlala umdaniso wamva nje (ngesandi esikhulu), engqongwe yiMillennials ewela emva kokuthatha ithuba leeyure zolonwabo. Ukuya kwi-intanethi kubonisa okugqibeleleyo okusingqongileyo apho banokukhululeka khona kwaye bazive bekhululekile ukudlala nabanye kubude bobude babo.
Unxibelelwano olulula
Apho digital ukuthandana winile olu khuphiswano lwentelekelelo izandla phantsi kulapho unxibelelwano luchaphazelekayo. Lo mzuzu ujoyina isiza sokuthandana uya kufumana ukufikelela kwiindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zokudibana nabanye abangabodwa. Unokuthatha ithuba ‘kundlela ezimfutshane’ ezininzi zokuthandana, ezinjengokufaka ‘ukuthanda’ kwiphepha leprofayile yomntu, okanye ukubathumelela ‘uqwayi.’ Nje ukuba ufikelele kwinqanaba lokuthatha ukuthandana kwakho ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo, ungathumela ngokuthe ngqo imiyalezo ngetekisi okanye nge-imeyile, ukufowuna, okanye ukuncokola ngevidiyo. Zonke ezi ndlela zilungelelanisiweyo zokuchukumisa isiseko zenza kube lula ukuphuhlisa ikhemistri. Oku kulula ngakumbi kunayo nayiphi na into onokuthi uqhelene nayo kwihlabathi elingaxhunyiwe kwi-intanethi.
Abantu banokulula ukuphuhlisa i-chemistry
Mhlawumbi uye wadibana nemeko kwiklabhu okanye kwindawo yebhari apho ubusoloko ukwindawo edumileyo nomntu onokuba liqabane, kuphela ukuba omnye umntu ajike xa uyokuthenga umjikelo. Kuya kuhlala kukho iziphazamiso xa usabelana ngendawo kunye nabanye abangabodwa, bonke bafuna iziphumo ezifanayo. Incoko enye-to-one kwi-intanethi iya kuba lutshintsho oluhlaziyayo kuyo nantoni na onokuthi ube nayo kwisekethe yemveli yokuthandana. Ungathatha ixesha lakho ukwakha ubudlelwane, ufumanisa zonke izinto enifana ngazo. Okanye ukuba ujonge ukudibana okuqhelekileyo, ungasusa imililo yothando ngokuhenda okuncinci ngaphambi kokuba utshintshisane ngeenkcukacha zoqhagamshelwano.
Dating sites ubukhulu becala zezentshayelelo
Kuya kufaneleka ukukhomba ukuba iindawo zedijithali ngokuqinisekileyo zifanelekile ekuboneleleni umoya apho abantu abangabodwa banokuhlangana khona jonga kwiiprofayile okanye unxibelelane kumagumbi okuncokola. Konke kumalunga nokuququzelela iintlanganiso phakathi kwabantu abahambelanayo. Kodwa abaninzi abangabodwa banokuthembela ngokugqithisileyo kwindawo yokuthuthuzela, ukuzinza kwindlela yokutshintshiselana imiyalezo rhoqo, ngelixa bechitha ixesha bejonga iinkcukacha zabasanda kufika kwindawo. Ukuba ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo nomntu othile, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ulungiselele inyathelo elinyukayo ukusuka 'kwidijithali ukuya kwelemveli' kungekudala kunokuba kamva. Kuphela ngokudibana nomntu ubuso ngobuso uya kudibanisa ngokwenene, ufumanisa iimpawu zobuntu ezifihliweyo ezifihliweyo ngokutshintshiselana ngokubhaliweyo.