Ngothando Lwemali
Abantu baya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukuze baphephe ukuba nesithukuthezi. Kuyaqondakala ukuba kunjalo, kodwa ziziphi iindleko okulungeleyo ukuncama ukhuseleko lwakho lwemali? Ubugebenga obukwi-Cybercrime buhambela phambili kwihlabathi jikelele, kwaye bubiza amaxhoba amaninzi anelishwa izigidi zeerandi; inani leenkcukacha-manani elikhula ngokukhawuleza ngonyaka. Ngaphezulu kwe-304 yezigidi zeedola kuxelwe ukuba ibiwe ngo-2020 ngabarhwebi abasebenzisa ii-apps zokuthandana.
Ezi ntlobo zobuqhophololo zibizwa ngokuba “zii-romance scams”. Abarhwaphilizi baxhaphaza ukuba sesichengeni kwabo balufuna ngamandla uthando, okanye ngamanye amaxesha abo bafuna into engaphantsi kothando… Oku kuyasebenza kuba abantu badla ngokuyekelela xa beziva bethandwa okanye benqweneleka.
Noko ke, zikho iindaba ezimnandi! Ubuqhophololo bothando buphetshwa ngokulula ngokuqaphela, kwaye ubeke iliso kwiiflegi ezibomvu. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba kukho into engalunganga, okanye uvakalelwa kukuba umntu uyaphamba, kukho amanyathelo ambalwa onokuthi uwathathe anokusindisa ingxaki enkulu kamva.
Iingcebiso zokuNqanda ukuba lixhoba
UyiFembot!
Kuyamangalisa ukuba zingaphi iiprofayili ezikwi-Intanethi ziirobhothi nje. Zonke zisebenzela iinjongo ezithile, kwaye ezinye azikho zimbi njengabanye. Umzekelo ungadibana ne-bot eyenzelwe ukwenza uphando olungenabungozi kwinkampani, okanye mhlawumbi ezantsi ekunene kwesikrini sakho xa unemibuzo yewebhusayithi.
Kwiindawo zokuthandana kunye nee -apps, ngakumbi ii-apps ze-hookup zesini ezininzi zezi bots ziyilelwe ngokulula ukuba zikudibanise ukuze uhlale ixesha elide ngaphandle kokufumana into oyizeleyo. Nangona oku kungenabungozi umntu unokuxoxa ukuba ukuchitha ixesha labantu kuselulwaphulo-mthetho lolunye uhlobo. Nangona kunjalo, abo bantu baye bafumana imali enzima abayisebenzele nzima kwi-wallet yabo baye bachitha ixesha labo. Kukho ezinye ii-apps ze-hookup ezihlaziyiweyo kwiVillageVoice.
Awunakuhlala ukwazi ukunqanda i-bots ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ukuba incoko yenzeka ngokukhawuleza okanye ibonakala ilungile kakhulu ukuba ibe yinyani mhlawumbi kunjalo. Buyela kwangoko, kwaye uphumeze amanyathelo ambalwa alandelayo ukuvavanya onokuthi ube ngumkhohlisi.
Zihlole
Uzakwenza oku nangona kunjalo, kwaye umahluko kuphela kukuba kufuneka uguqule izinto ozilindeleyo ngelixa ukhangela iprofayile yomntu. Endaweni yokujonga iindondo zelanga ezimibalabala unokuthi xa uthi krwaqu uzame ukufaka iindondo zakho ze-“Matrix”, kwaye ungathembi nantoni na oyibonayo de uzive uqinisekile… Ngamanye amaxesha nangona kunjalo.
Yiya kwimifanekiso abayithumeleyo, kwaye ubhekise kuyo ngaxeshanye.
- Ngaba ifoto enye ibonisa ukuba bane tattoo kwaye abanye abanayo?
- Umdlalo wombala wamehlo kuyo yonke into?
- Ngaba azikho iifoto "eziqhelekileyo" ezikhangelekayo? Ngaba babonakala benobuchule kakhulu rhoqo?
- Khangela abanye abantu kwiifoto. Ukongezwa okuphindaphindiweyo kubonisa abantu bokwenyani.
- Usenokude ujike ukhangele ifoto ukuze ubone ukuba kukho ezinye ezifana nayo kwi-intanethi.
- Jonga iiprofayili zemidiya yoluntu eziqhagamshelweyo kwaye ujonge ezo.
Kuxhomekeka ukuba unzulu kangakanani emngxunyeni womvundla ozimisele ukuwuhamba ungajonga ngasemva, ujonge kwidolophu yabo, okanye ujonge uludwe lwabahlobo babo ukuze bafumane abahlobo. Kuhlala kungcono ukukhuseleka kunokuzisola. Ukuba bakhathazekile ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwakho ngoko unokufuna ukuyiqwalasela kwakhona yonke into! Ukuba bayamangalisa, baxelele ukuba bakuthathe njengokuncoma kuba kuwe babonakala belunge kakhulu ukuba yinyaniso.
Qaphela iiflegi eziBomvu
- Ubudlelwane buhamba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu.
- Umntu uthi ukude. Emkhosini, kwi-oyile rig, kwishishini, njl.
- Iprofayile yindlela entle kakhulu ukuba ibe yinyani.
- Bakucela imali nangasiphi na isizathu.
- Abayi kuncokola ngevidiyo okanye badibane nawe. Bayazaphula izithembiso.
- Iindlela zokuhlawula ezikhethekileyo ziyacelwa.
Ubuqhetseba obuqhelekileyo
Into malunga nezi ntlobo zobuqhophololo ezijolise kuluntu lwe-intanethi olufana nee-apps ze-hookup zesini kunye nee-apps zokuthandana kukuba zihlala zitshintsha ukugcina amaxhoba kwiinzwane zabo. Ungadibana nobuqhetseba obudala kanye ngexesha elithile, kodwa uninzi lwezobuqhetseba ezisebenzayo azikho mntu waziyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezimbalwa zokuqaphela.
"Ndidinga uncedo"
Ezi ziya kuhamba ngolu hlobo: Uyamthanda umntu kwaye uyakuthanda, kodwa ngelishwa bahlala kwelinye ilizwe okanye kwelinye ilizwe. Uqala ukuthetha, kwaye ihamba ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuba ngequbuliso nithandane nobabini. Uswiti kanjani!Kuphela ngoku badinga itikiti lenqwelomoya ukuze babuyele ekhaya kufutshane nalapho uhlala khona ukuze bahlale ngolonwabo emva nawe. Into yile… I-Western Union ayilunganga, ngoko bafuna ukuba uyifake imali kwiakhawunti ethile.
Ufaka imali, bayayeka ukuthatha iminxeba yakho, ilula ngolo hlobo.
Ihashe lesipho?…
Yiba nomfanekiso ngqondweni wale meko ingasentla, endaweni yetikiti lenqwelomoya kuphela apho badinga uqhaqho lomntwana wabo oswelekileyo… Unentliziyo ebandayo akunjalo? Khawufan’ ucinge ukuba uyala! Iyakubande kangakanani intliziyo LONTO?
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Uthumela imifanekiso yeenkcukacha zekhadi, kunye no-BAM… Uhambe ekutshoneni kwelanga, kwaye awuzange wazi nokuba abanaye umntwana.
Kuyanceda ukulumka! Ungaze unike nabani na imali kwi-Intanethi ukuba awubazi kwaye/okanye awufuni kuphulukana naloo mali! Qhagamshelana ne-FTC kwikhonkco elingentla ukuba ukholelwa ukuba ulixhoba lolwaphulo-mthetho lwe-cyber! HLALA UKHUSELEKILE!