Ngesikhathi kuvotwa, u-58% wamadoda okwaxoxwa nawo aphendule ngokuthi umnumzane wesimanje kungenzeka abonakale egqoke isudi elungiswe kahle, kanti u-41% uthe abone sengathi angakwazi ukukhetha umnumzane wangempela esixukwini ngendlela alungisa ngayo izinwele zakhe.
Nakuba igama elithi “umnumzane” lisetshenziselwa ukukhombisa izinga lomcebo womuntu kanye nesimo sakhe senhlalo, umnumzane wanamuhla uwuphawu lwesigaba nenhlonipho, futhi lokhu akudingekile ukuba kuze nenani eliphakeme.
Ukwakha Izingubo Zokugqoka Ngesabelomali
Uma ufuna ukubukeka kahle ngaphandle kokugqekeza ibhange, akudingekile ukuthi uthenge ezitolo zamasekeni.
Isihluthulelo sokwakha ikhabethe ngesabelomali ukwenza ukuthenga okunolwazi futhi okuphumelelayo ukusiza ukwakha ikhabethe lakho ngendlela enengqondo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ozofuna ukusithatha ukuthenga izingubo ozidingayo kuphela. Yenza uhlu lwalokho okubalulekile okudingayo ukuze uqalise futhi uthathe uhlu lwezingubo zakho zamanje.
Uma ukwazi, thengisa izinto ongazidingi noma esezidlulelwe yisikhathi ukuze uthenge izinto ezintsha ezilingana kahle nomzimba wakho futhi zihambisane nesitayela samanje.
Uma ukwazi, qiniseka ukuthi utshala imali ibe isudi enhle. Lolu hlobo lokutshala imali luzohamba kude ngokwesitayela kanye nenani lenhlonipho oyicelayo ngokulugqoka.
I-suit egcwele ingathengwa ngama-bits, okwenza kube utshalomali lwesikhathi eside, kodwa kufanele ihlanganise: ibhulukwe elifakiwe kanye nejakhethi eyenziwe ngendwangu efanayo, ihembe lengubo elikhanyayo, elifakwe kahle, elihambisanayo, uthayi othulisiwe kanye izicathulo eziphezulu.
Ukuba umnumzane wesimanje akukaze kubukeke kukuhle kangaka kushibhile.
Ukuzinakekela
Nakuba ukunakekelwa kwesikhumba okufanele kanye nenqubo yokunakekelwa kwezinwele ephethwe kahle ingakhuluma kakhulu ngohlobo lomnumzane ozakhela ukuba yilo, akudingekile ukuba uchithe izinkulungwane emikhiqizweni eyahlukene ukuze uzuze lokhu kubukeka kanye nesimo esizayo. ngayo.
Yakha indlela yokulungisa esheshayo, elula yansuku zonke ongayishintsha ube umkhuba futhi uzobukeka upholile njengoba uzizwa ngokushesha.
Kusukela ezinsukwini ze-spa kuye kwezibiliboco ngendlela yephunga elisha lomklami, ziningi izindlela ongabamba ngazo into ewubukhazikhazi ngesaphulelo esishubile.
Hlakanipha ngendlela oziphatha ngayo futhi ungazizwa kabi ngokutshala imali empilweni nasempilweni yakho.
Ikhuphoni lendawo noma amawebhusayithi esaphulelo afana ne-Groupon ngokuvamile azohlinzeka ngamadili akhethekile ngemikhiqizo yokuzinakekela kanye nezinsizakalo kanye namadili endawo ezindaweni zokugunda izinwele, izindawo zokuphumula emini kanye namahhovisi odokotela ukuze bathole ukwelashwa kobuso kanye nemisebenzi efanayo yokubukeka-muhle-ukuzizwa kahle.
Imfashini Ibaluleke Njengenhlonipho
Ukuba umnumzane kusho, empeleni, noma yini ofuna ukuthi isho.
Indoda egqoke kahle, enakekelwe kahle iyincenye eyodwa kuphela yendoda emnene, futhi kufanele ubheke ukuzuza ukuhlonishwa nokunconywa yilabo abasempilweni yakho njengoba ufuna ukukukhombisa lokho.
Thatha lezi zinyathelo ukuze ube yindoda emnene kubhajethi ukuze uqonde ukuthi kulula kangakanani ukuba nesitayela nesitayela ngaphandle kwethegi yamanani aphezulu.
Izithombe nge: Sastreria Calabrese noRené de la Cruz.