Ingabe ukuya ku-inthanethi ukuze uxhumane nabangase babe ozakwethu kuyoke kube ‘okuzenzakalelayo’ kwabashadile? Umbuzo okhombisa amanani akhulayo abangashadile abadoselana ku-inthanethi. (Kulabo abathanda izibalo ezingemuva kwalesi sitatimende, manje sekunezinkulungwane zamawebhusayithi afanayo laphaya, ahlinzekela uxhaxha lokuthandwa, futhi manje aqala ngaphezu kwengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yobudlelwano besimanje). Yiqiniso, lesi sibalo singase futhi sithathwe ukuze kuvezwe ukuthi izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zemibhangqwana zisahlangana ezimweni 'zendabuko' ezengeziwe. Kodwa ingxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yaleyo grafu ekhula kakhulu. Nazi izizathu zokuthi kungani ukuphola kwedijithali kungase, noma kungenzeki, kuthathele indawo okuhlukahlukene okungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi.
Amasayithi abhekelela izinhlobonhlobo zokuthandwa
Indawo eyodwa lapho ukuya ku-inthanethi kudlula indlela ‘yakudala’ yokufuna umuntu ofanele ubudlelwano abantu abavuthiwe abaqomisanayo. Abantu asebevele babhekana nezinkinga zobudlelwane, mhlawumbe ababhekana nobuhlungu bedivosi noma ukushonelwa, kungenzeka ukuthi sebefinyelele ezingeni lapho befisa ukuqala kabusha ukuphila kwabo. Ikakhulukazi uthando lwabo luphila! Abashadile abakhulile bangase bazizwe bengakhululekile ukufuna imimoya eyizihlobo ekilabhini edlala imidanso yakamuva evela ngaphandle (ngevolumu ephezulu), ezungezwe iMillennials ewayo ngemva kokusebenzisa amahora enjabulo. Ukuya ku-inthanethi kumelela okuhle kakhulu imvelo lapho bengakhululeka khona futhi bazizwe bekhululekile ukudlala ngothando nabanye ngobude babo begagasi.
Ukuxhumana Okulula
Lapho i-digital dating iwina khona lo mncintiswano wokucatshangelwa izandla phansi yilapho ukuxhumana kuthinteka khona. Uma nje ujoyina isayithi lokuthandana uzothola ukufinyelela ezindleleni eziningi ezahlukene zokwenza ubuhlobo nabanye abangashadile. Ungasebenzisa 'izinqamuleli' eziningi zokuqomisana, njengokwengeza u-'like' ekhasini lephrofayela yomunye, noma ukumthumelela 'iciniso.' Uma usufinyelele esigabeni sokuyisa ukuqomisana kwakho kwelinye izinga, ungathumela okuqondile. imilayezo ngombhalo noma i-imeyili, hlanganyela ezingcingweni, noma ngisho nengxoxo yevidiyo. Zonke lezi zindlela ezilula zokuthinta isisekelo zenza kube lula ukuthuthukisa ikhemistri. Lokhu kulula kakhulu kunanoma yini okungenzeka ukuthi ujwayelene nayo emhlabeni ongaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi.
Abantu bangakwazi ukuthuthukisa i-chemistry kalula
Mhlawumbe uke wahlangabezana nesimo ekilabhini noma endaweni yokucima ukoma lapho kade uduma nomuntu ongase ube umlingani wakho, kuvele kuqhamuke omunye umuntu uyothenga umjikelezo. Kuzohlala kukhona iziphazamiso lapho wabelana ngendawo nabanye abangashadile, bonke bafuna imiphumela efanayo. Izingxoxo zomuntu oyedwa ku-inthanethi zizoba ushintsho oluqabulayo kunoma yini ongase uhlangabezane nayo kumjikelezo wendabuko wokuqomisana. Ungathatha isikhathi sakho ukwakha ubuhlobo, uthole zonke izinto enifana ngazo. Noma uma ufuna ukuhlangana okuvamile, ungakwazi ukubhula imililo yothando ngokuyenga okuncane ngaphambi kokushintshanisa imininingwane yokuxhumana.
Izingosi zokuqomisana ngokuvamile ezezethulo
Kungakuhle siveze ukuthi izindawo zokudayisa zedijithali zilungele ukuhlinzeka ngendawo lapho abangashadile bengabuthana khona phequlula amaphrofayili noma nihlanganyele ezingosini zezingxoxo. Konke kumayelana nokugqugquzela imihlangano phakathi kwabantu abahambisanayo. Kodwa ama-single amaningi angathembela ngokweqile endaweni yokunethezeka, azinze enkambisweni yokushintshana imiyalezo evamile, kuyilapho echitha isikhathi ehlola imininingwane yabasanda kungena kusayithi. Uma ufuna ukwakha ubuhlobo obuzuzisayo nothile, kunganconywa ukuthi uhlele isinyathelo esisuka ‘sedijithali siye kwesikasiko’ ngokushesha kunokuba kamuva. Kuphela ngokuhlangana nomuntu ubuso nobuso lapho uzoxhumana khona ngempela, uthole izinto ezifihlekile zobuntu ezisithwe ukushintshana kombhalo.