Ngothando Lwemali
Abantu bazozama ngazo zonke izindlela ukugwema ukuba nesizungu. Kuyaqondakala ukuthi kunjalo, kodwa ngaziphi izindleko ozimisele ukudela ukulondeka kwakho ngokwezimali? Ubugebengu be-inthanethi budlondlobala emhlabeni wonke, futhi bubiza izisulu eziningi ezineshwa izigidi zamaRandi; isibalo sezibalo esikhula kakhulu ngonyaka. Ngaphezu kwamaRandi ayizigidi ezingama-304 kubikwe ukuthi yebiwe ngo-2020 ngabakhwabanisi abasebenzisa izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola.
Lezi zinhlobo zemikhonyovu zibizwa ngokuthi “imikhonyovu yezothando”. Abakhwabanisi baxhaphaza ubungozi balabo abalufuna ngabomvu uthando, noma ngezinye izikhathi labo abafuna ngempela okuthile okungaphansi kothando… Lokhu kuyasebenza ngoba abantu bavame ukungaqapheli lapho bezizwa bethandwa noma befiswa.
Nokho, zikhona izindaba ezinhle! Imikhonyovu yezothando igwenywa kalula nje ngokuqaphela, nokubhekisisa amafulegi abomvu. Uma uzwa sengathi kukhona okungahambi kahle, noma uzwa sengathi umuntu uyaphika, kunezinyathelo ezimbalwa ongazithatha ezingahle zikugcinele izinkinga eziningi kamuva.
Amathiphu Okugwema Ukuba Izisulu
Uyi-Fembot!
Kuyamangaza ukuthi mangaki amaphrofayili aku-inthanethi angamarobhothi. Zonke zifeza izinhloso ezithile, kanti ezinye azimbi njengezinye. Isibonelo ungase uhlangane ne-bot ehloselwe ukwenza ucwaningo olungenabungozi enkampanini, noma mhlawumbe ngezansi kwesokudla kwesikrini sakho uma unemibuzo yewebhusayithi.
Kumasayithi okuphola nezinhlelo zokusebenza, ikakhulukazi izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuxhumanisa ezocansi eziningi zalawa ma-bot aklanyelwe ukukuxhumanisa ukuze uhlale isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokuthola lokho obukuzele. Nakuba lokhu kungenangozi umuntu angathi ukumosha isikhathi sabantu kuseyicala elithile. Kodwa-ke, labo bantu abaye bathola imali yabo abayithole kanzima ephuma ezikhwameni zabo baye bamoshwa nesikhathi sabo. Kukhona ezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuxhumanisa ezibuyekeziwe ku-VillageVoice.
Ungase ungakwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukugwema ama-bots ngokuphelele, kodwa uma ingxoxo yenzeka ngokushesha kakhulu noma kubonakala kukuhle kakhulu ukuba yiqiniso kungenzeka ukuthi kunjalo. Buyela emuva ngokushesha, futhi usebenzise izinyathelo ezimbalwa ezilandelayo ukuze uhlole okungenzeka ukuthi ungumkhohlisi.
Zihlole
Uzokwenza lokhu noma kunjalo, futhi umehluko kuphela ukuthi kufanele uguqule lokho okulindele ngenkathi upheqa iphrofayela yomuntu okusolwayo. Esikhundleni sokubheka izibuko zelanga ezinemibala egqamile ungase uthi nhlá uzame ukufaka izibuko zakho ze-“Matrix”, futhi ungathembi noma yini oyibonayo uze uzizwe uqinisekile… Kwesinye isikhathi noma kunjalo.
Dlula ezithombeni abazifakile, futhi ubhekise kuzo kanyekanye.
- Ingabe isithombe esisodwa sibonisa ukuthi bane-tattoo kanti abanye abanawo?
- Ukufana kombala wamehlo kuwo wonke?
- Ingabe azikho izithombe “ezijwayelekile” ezibukekayo? Ingabe abonakala echwepheshile kaningi?
- Bheka abanye abantu ezithombeni. Okungeziwe okuphindaphindayo kuyinkomba yabantu bangempela.
- Ungase futhi uhlehlise ukusesha isithombe ukuze ubone ukuthi akhona yini amanye afana naso ku-inthanethi.
- Bheka amaphrofayli axhunyiwe enkundla yezokuxhumana futhi uwahlole.
Kuye ngokuthi ujule kangakanani embobeni onogwaja ozimisele ukuya khona ungakwazi ukuhlola ingemuva, ubheke edolobheni lakubo, noma uhlole uhlu lwabangane babo ukuze uthole abangani abalinganayo. Kuhlala kungcono ukuphepha kunokuzisola. Uma becasukile ngoba ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwakho khona-ke ungase ufune ukuyicabangela kabusha yonke into noma kunjalo! Uma bexakile, batshele ukuthi bakuthathe njengokuncoma ngoba kuwe babonakala bebahle kakhulu ukuba bangabi yiqiniso.
Qaphela Amafulegi Abomvu
- Ubudlelwano buhamba ngokushesha kakhulu.
- Umuntu uthi ukude. Emasosheni, emshinini kawoyela, kwezamabhizinisi, njll.
- Iphrofayela yinhle kakhulu ukuthi ingaba yiqiniso.
- Bakucela imali nganoma yisiphi isizathu.
- Ngeke baxoxe ngevidiyo noma bahlangane nawe. Baphula izithembiso.
- Kucelwa izindlela zokukhokha eziqondile.
Imikhonyovu Ejwayelekile
Into mayelana nalezi zinhlobo zomkhonyovu eziqondise imiphakathi eku-inthanethi njengezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuxhumanisa ucansi nezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola ukuthi zihlala zishintsha ukuze zigcine izisulu zisezinzwaneni zazo. Ungase uhlangane nomkhonyovu wakudala ngesikhathi esithile, kodwa imikhonyovu eminingi esebenzayo yileyo okungekho muntu owaziyo ngayo. Nokho, kukhona okumbalwa okumele sikuqaphele.
"Ngidinga usizo"
Lezi zizohamba kanje: Uyamthanda umuntu futhi uyakuthanda, kodwa ngeshwa uhlala kwelinye izwe noma kwelinye izwe. Uqala ukukhuluma, futhi kuhamba ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuthi nithandane nobabili. Kumnandi kanjani!Kuphela manje sebedinga ithikithi lendiza ukuze babuyele ekhaya eduze nalapho uhlala khona ukuze bahlale bejabule nawe. Into ewukuthi… I-Western Union ayilungile, ngakho-ke idinga ukuthi ubeke imali ku-akhawunti ethile.
Ufaka imali, bayayeka ukuthatha izingcingo zakho, kulula kanjalo.
Ihhashi Lesipho?…
Cabanga ngesimo esingenhla, esikhundleni sethikithi lendiza kuphela badinga ukuhlinzwa kwengane yabo efayo… Inhliziyo ebandayo impela akunjalo? Cabanga nje uma uwanqaba! Kuyoba nenhliziyo ebanda kangakanani LOKHO?
Ngakho-ke unquma ukukhokha, ngoba ungcwele futhi akekho ofuna ukuthi ingane ife. Awume kodwa, Ngcwele, udokotela wabo uthatha izinkokhelo kuphela ngamakhadi ezipho. AMAKHADI amaningi esipho. Isikhathi sendawo ngo-4 A.M, futhi use-Wal-Mart uthenga wonke amakhadi esipho angahleliwe ongawathola ukuze uwayise ekhaya futhi uthathe izithombe zawo ozozithumela.
Uthumela izithombe zolwazi lwekhadi, kanye ne-BAM… Ihambe ekushoneni kwelanga, futhi awuzange wazi nokuthi abanayo ingane.
Kuyazuzisa ukuqapha! Ungalokothi unikeze noma ubani imali eku-inthanethi uma ungabazi futhi/noma ungazimisele ukulahlekelwa leyo mali! Xhumana ne-FTC kulesi sixhumanisi esingenhla uma ukholelwa ukuthi uke waba yisisulu sobugebengu obuku-inthanethi! HLALA UPHEPHILE!