Kungase kungamangalisi ukuthi ukuzethemba komuntu kuyehla ngokushesha nje lapho eqala ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa njalo, okungenzeka ukuthi, uma uzivumela, kungase kuphazamise umbono womuntu ngamunye ngokubaluleka kwazo njengomuntu.
Kunjalo nje kuhlezi kukhona ithemba kulaba bantu okuhlanganisa nokwamukela ukwelashwa kwe-cannabis ezindaweni eziseduze zokuvuselela kabusha endaweni yazo. Ngenxa yalokhu, umphakathi kumele unake izindlela ezahlukene ongazisebenzisa ukuze ubuyise isithunzi sawo.
Kodwa-ke, kufanele siqale sicacise ukuthi i-cannabis iholela ekubeni umlutha ngoba le yinkulumompikiswano phakathi kwezingxoxo zezepolitiki.
Ngenzeni?
Uma ekugcineni usufikile futhi wafuna usizo lwezokwelapha ngokulutheka kwakho, kunezinto ezimbalwa ongazenza ukuze usize uphinde ulawule isimo sakho, njengokuthi:Zixolele
Ngesikhathi sokuvuselelwa, abantu bavame ukuhlushwa imicabango yamaphutha abo lapho beluthekile. Nakuba ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa ngokuvamile kungase kwehlise inani lokulawula umfutho nokwahlulela komuntu, kunezikhathi lapho umuntu odonsa kanzima wayeyosho noma enze okuthile abengaqhubeka nonembeza wakhe.
Akulungile ukwenza izaba. Noma kunjalo, lezi zenzo akufanele zibophe umuntu impilo yakhe yonke, njengoba iziqephu zokubuyela emuva zingenzeka uma eqhubeka nokuzishaya. Ngokufanayo, kuhle kakhulu ukuvuma amaphutha esikhathi esidlule futhi uqaphele ukuthi ukuzijezisa ngeke kubuyise isikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuzithethelela kubaluleke kakhulu ekwehliseni ukudangala kanye nezikhathi zokukhathazeka.
Iba mnene
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokwenza isenzo esincane somusa usuku ngalunye. Ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni kwe-prosocial, noma izenzo ezimiselwe ukuzuza abanye, kunendima enkulu ekwenzeni umuntu azizwe ejabule ngaye.Ngokufanelekile, bekuyokusiza ukuba uqale ngokubonisa ukwazisa kwakho kubantu ohlangana nabo ngezindlela ezilula, njengokudela isihlalo sakho ngenxa yasebekhulile, ukuvulela othile umnyango, noma ukuqondisa omunye umuntu ngokunikeza iziqondiso lapho bedukile. .
Yamukela noma yikuphi ukunconywa
Ngenxa ye-backstory edabukisayo, abacwaningi badalule ukuthi labo ababenemilutha babhekana nobunzima bokwamukela izincomo ezivela kwabanye, njengoba sebengabaza ubuqotho bezincomo ezinjalo-ngokuvamile okuphindwe kabili ngenxa yemizwa ekhulayo yokuphoxeka ngokucabangela ukuthi ukuhlonishwa.
Ngakho, kungase kube inselele kubo ukuvulela abanye isifuba. Kodwa lokhu akufanele kube nzima uma nje bethola ukulandela okulandelayo:
- Azibambe ekuchitheni izincomo
- Thatha la mazwi abe ngangempela
- Veza ukubonga kwabo ngezwi elifushane elithi “thank you” futhi bazivumele bagxile ekudumiseni isikhashana
- Khumbula ukuthi abantu bahambisana namandla abo, okufanele baziqhenye ngawo
Ngokwenza kanjalo, imilutha eguquliwe izinikeza ithuba lokwakha ukwethembana nabanye kuyilapho igcizelela ukuziphatha okuhle abafundiswe kubo ngesikhathi sokuhlunyeleliswa.
Yenza izinguquko ezifanele
Uma usuqoqe ukuzethemba okwanele, kufanele ube umuntu ozimisele ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu, njengoba izinhloso zokubuyisela zidinga izenzo eziqhutshwa ukukhetha okuzigqugquzelayo.
Ngale ndlela, umuntu angaba nekhono elanele namakhono ukuze afinyelele ingqopha-mlando azibekile ukuze alulame. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukuzimisela kwabo kufanele kufane nensimbi njengoba iziliphu zingenzeka ngokushesha, futhi kuphela ngokubhekana nalolo shintsho lwenzeka ngezigaba abangaluyisa endleleni efanele.
Amazwi okugcina
Kungase kubonakale kungenakwenzeka, kodwa iqiniso lihlala liwukuthi abantu baphumelele kule nkinga futhi baphinde bazilawula. Futhi ngokukholwa kwethu, kuyenzeka futhi kumuntu onjengawe.
Noma kungenzeka ukuthi uzibonile izimpawu kusenesikhathi kodwa awukwazanga ukuyeka, umnyango wempilo entsha awuvaliwe ngokuphelele kumuntu onjengawe.
Ekugcineni, inqobo nje uma uzimisele futhi wenza umzamo wokwenza izinguquko, kuzofika isikhathi lapho uzokwazi ukushiya indlela emnyama obujwayele ukuhamba kuyo.